What is Love?

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In the immortal words of Olaf, love is putting someone else's needs before yours. In technical terms, love is a set of emotions and behaviour characterized by intimacy, passion, and commitment. It also includes care, closeness, protectiveness, attraction, affection, and trust. 

“You want a love that consumes you. You want passion and adventure, and even a little danger…” said Damon Salvatore. Everyone deserves love, but most people think they don’t. Love is a necessity, not a desire. Unconditional love is something that everyone needs. A love without any expectations, without wanting you to change. Just simple and pure eternal love.

One very important thing to remember is that love doesn't need to be romantic. It can be platonic as well. In my opinion, platonic love is the purest form of love. Love can mean different things to different people. Different people expect different things from their loved ones. In my opinion, love isn't a choice or decision. It's something that happens unconsciously. 

Love changes you without your knowledge. You adapt yourself to better suit your loved ones. You unknowingly mimic their habits. 'Imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.' They help you become a better person. You would do anything for them. Like Olaf said, you put their needs before yours. 


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  1. Anderlin VictorApril 5, 2024 at 8:50 PM

    True Love is like the dinosaurs. They don't exist anymore.🤧

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