Does a woman need to be protected?

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This is pretty controversial. Most men think that women are people that need to be protected and aren't capable of protecting themselves. I believe that women are just as capable as men of protecting themselves. They will ask if they need help. I think there’s no need to smother them under the guise of ‘taking care of them.’

On the other hand, some women like to be taken care of. They might not need it but they appreciate it if a man takes the time and effort to take care of them. She definitely wants this man to know that she can protect herself and that she is allowing him to take care of her. Taking care of a woman is a hard job and men have to know what kind of woman they’re dealing with. Men need to know where to draw the line. 

Women, I think, like to know that they are appreciated and cared for. However, in today's world, they are worried to show weakness. They are scared that they will be exploited if they show weakness - which is a pretty valid fear... Think about it... is that the world's fault or the woman's? 

I'd like to leave you with this thought. Think about it and let me know what you think.

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  1. Anderlin VictorJuly 25, 2024 at 6:03 AM

    The last para just explained how much men worry about showing their weakness to others because they might be exploited as well. That's where feminism comes into play and explains that not only does feminism talk about women's struggles, but also men who have to hide their tears from society. But I don't stand for Neo-Feminism though

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